Today, at work...
Posted by desimarie23 10 years, 3 months ago to Government
The office manager took the group of us out to lunch. Normally the topics of conversation at such lunches are mindless. Today...because of the SOTU crap last night, the office manager decided to throw her two-cents about government out on the table for discussion. Of course I cringed because both she and her husband (my boss) are Liberal and obviously very pro-BO. Mind you- my boss is a VERY successful attorney and very, very wealthy.
So she says "Did you hear that 'they're' talking about making two years of community college free??" and while I attempted to restrain myself...I replied "and who is paying for that 'free' education? Nothing is ever free." "Oh the top 1% that hold all of the wealth of the country..." I asked her why she thinks that it's ok to take money from one person to give it to someone else. Her exact words are "that's the way it goes...they don't need all of that money anyway."
I left. I got up, got into my car and drove back to work. Had I not done that, I would've lost my job for telling her what a fool she is. I just needed to share this. We've discussed the "free education" in the Gulch before. So no need to beat a dead horse but there are truly people that think it is 100% okay to redistribute wealth to the undeserving. This woman also thinks that the present economy is the best it's ever been in our country....and "wouldn't it be great if BO could always be president."
Just shoot me.
So she says "Did you hear that 'they're' talking about making two years of community college free??" and while I attempted to restrain myself...I replied "and who is paying for that 'free' education? Nothing is ever free." "Oh the top 1% that hold all of the wealth of the country..." I asked her why she thinks that it's ok to take money from one person to give it to someone else. Her exact words are "that's the way it goes...they don't need all of that money anyway."
I left. I got up, got into my car and drove back to work. Had I not done that, I would've lost my job for telling her what a fool she is. I just needed to share this. We've discussed the "free education" in the Gulch before. So no need to beat a dead horse but there are truly people that think it is 100% okay to redistribute wealth to the undeserving. This woman also thinks that the present economy is the best it's ever been in our country....and "wouldn't it be great if BO could always be president."
Just shoot me.
In a situation where an authority imposes its political views and others are forming a "new club" in opposition, an obvious conflict arises. Any individual can be tempted to choose sides and trade loyalty to the group for benefits from the authority, by betraying the group. I do not see any conspiracy in that situation. Common sense, it seems to me, counsels recognition of the risk and prudence.
As I tried to say in my first comment, the whole situation is a poison to a healthy work environment. I have been there in my life. I chose to quit and found a way into "solving customer problems", practicing development engineering. What we developed is still the best in the world, 40 years hence.
If you're like me, you never looked back and said, "I wish I could get that somewhat crappy I-guess-I-can-put-up-with-this job back." Every time I've taken a decision like this that I felt somewhat nervous about, I have *always* wondered why I didn't act sooner.
New and unfamiliar problems are a good thing, IMHO.
If you confronted the owners about it, you _might_ find they actually enjoy the discussion. They might just shut up about because they don't want turnover. You might even (although probably not) change their minds about something.
I strongly agree with rockymountainpirate that if they're that annoying, it's best to move on. There are too many interesting people, projects, and situations to work on to spend any time with people who carry on about politics or do anything too annoying.
Worrying about spies will drive you crazy. While some person wonders what your ideology is and a brownnoser spies, just create value and solve problems. I really don't understand how they can get anything done while spending time worrying about each other's personal beliefs. If you focus on being excellent at solving customer problems, you'll get better that. The conspiracy people will get better at politics.
I think you could have asked questions along what Timelord did. If they really hard hard-core ideologues, it would be good to work somewhere else.
The job needs done and I can't blame her for making the bucks, but she seems to rationalize supporting socialist ideology while saying 'conservatives' are solely responsible for the crash, so she has selectively educated herself while conveniently ignoring the facts.
Says it's a miracle that she's a friend of mine and, to keep it civil amongst friends, I reply "thank God for miracles". But, I don't have to work with her.
I would try to get out of there as attorneys can justify anything. I'm sure we all know good ones that are good people, but nothing an attorney does surprises me.
Kafkatrapping! Fantastic.
Thanks for the new word and link.
O.A.
Thank's for the bounty you always bring!
This is just something to combat them on their slogans
these liberals think that the best way to use a
government is to control the lives of others, willy-
nilly, just because it's PC or fair or some crap.
you are NOT alone!!! -- j
Just tell them they're kafkatrapping ( http://esr.ibiblio.org/?p=2122 ) and turn your back.
Never-the-less, if someone wants to talk about Barry or anyone else in his socialist, criminal administration, I'll be happy to voice my opinion if wanted. She can sit in my lap so she can better listen in.
Wait!! Let me rethink that.
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