Bosch Fawstin vs. Facebook and The Religion of “Peace”
Dr. Hurd nails it:
"A typical conversation between a psychotherapist, such as myself, and a client, will go like this:
Client: “My husband (or wife) makes me feel this way.” Or: “My boss makes me feel like an incompetent person.” Or: “My mother used to make me feel like I’m helpless, and still does.”
Therapist: “Nobody can MAKE you feel a certain way without your consent. Your feelings come from your thoughts, ideas and assumptions. If someone belittles you and you feel small because of it, then some part of you feels like you’re inadequate. If you thought of yourself as capable and strong, you would not be subject to the perceived or actual slights of others.”
"A typical conversation between a psychotherapist, such as myself, and a client, will go like this:
Client: “My husband (or wife) makes me feel this way.” Or: “My boss makes me feel like an incompetent person.” Or: “My mother used to make me feel like I’m helpless, and still does.”
Therapist: “Nobody can MAKE you feel a certain way without your consent. Your feelings come from your thoughts, ideas and assumptions. If someone belittles you and you feel small because of it, then some part of you feels like you’re inadequate. If you thought of yourself as capable and strong, you would not be subject to the perceived or actual slights of others.”
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Monstrosity, like a cancer, emerges gradually, without a full plan at the start. Evil metastasizes.
I am one of the survivors.
From my personal experience and knowledge, the Catholic servants of Hitler's Germans, killed and burned alive anybody that they did not like because they were Orthodox Christians. I know of a man who was thrown into the fire under a boiler in his own factory. I know of a village where all the Orthodox were herded into their church, locked in and the building torched.
Not all Christians, nor all Germans are monsters. But neither that religion, nor that ethnicity provide an immunity against monstrosity.
My mother put it another way: "That was mean thing to say but sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you." This was usually followed by "Now, if you continue to cry, I will really give you something to cry about."
This was said while my mother was drying my tears.
This confused me at first because I felt "hurt." But somehow this put what Johnny or Mary just said to me in a different perspective. Nothing they said could actually, physically hurt me. The only hurt I felt was caused by what I was thinking. As soon as I realized the speaker was mean - I didn't feel so bad.
Took some repeating...but I got it.
This little saying has fallen into disfavor. Shame.
Anyone who is offended chooses it, generally, because the are seeking "external validation;" they do not have the self-esteem, self-respect for themselves and they have to attach to someone else to give their lives some meaning. They are not individuals, they are pathetic parasites.
http://www.neatorama.com/2008/05/03/10-i...
It's a Facebook knock off, hosted in Iceland, no ads, and they don't monitor your page. Iceland also has very strict privacy laws.
Regarding such feelings of offense, I am indifferent. . I am offended myself by the surrender monkeys saying only those feelings matter.
I have my own peculiar sensitivities in that mass beheadings, capturing and enslaving schoolgirls, placing offensive weapons in schoolyards and hospitals, are offensive to me. It seems it is bad to offend with ideas, but consideration must be given to violent nut cases.
Being offended is right and proper, it is a survival mechanism. What matters is how you deal with it.
Dr Hurd is wrong. Psychotherapy is the art of getting people to pay you for listening to their stories.
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