Did Rand believe in Romantic Loyalty?
Posted by FlashGordon 11 years, 8 months ago to Culture
If you read Rand's novels her female heroine's always seem to just move on to a better man if one appears. In fact I thought of renaming Atlas Shrugged to "Who's Hank Rearden" because she just seems to forget about Hank when she meets John Galt. So did Rand believe if you meet someone "better" and they're interested in you, you just move on? I know she got upset with N. Branden when he picked someone else (we're all human). So those that study Rand more seriously than me, did she believe in marriage (ignore the question of children for the moment) or other forms of romantic committment?
We may differ on whether a contract agreed on false assumptions is valid. In this case, Hank was naive, Lillian was a gold digger who mislead about intentions. If I take the position of judge, which I do, there was no contract.
"for better for worse," but for who, or for what? The words are for the couple not the individual. It got worse, but not for them both as a couple, one person inflicted humiliation on the other, made no contribution but only took. To argue otherwise is to say that allowing unexpected degradation to oneself is part of that contract. A conservative may say ok, I do not.
Sex in marriage- an implicit part of that contract, a contract to be legal does not have to be written. I understand that in the Catholic church withdrawal is grounds for annulment, the wider society and law would concur.
Some religions have a stricter view than that, is it the Mormons? There is no divorce, no annulment and no remarriage, ever. I take your second sentence as almost supporting that view short of recognizing death as ending the contract.
A contract can be between unequal persons, say one rich, one poor. There again assumptions are needed as to what each must do to fulfill their bargain. In this story, Hank may not have performed well, but he could, (he was rejected as a man in all that means). Lilian would not fulfill expectations except in trivia. Therefore contract void.
In AS, Rand gives us another example of a marriage that failed. Cheryl Brooks entered with fine intentions and views but unfortunately with limited information. James Taggert had no intentions, no views, a complete contradiction of Rand's view of romantic love. Should Cheryl have held on despite being misled? Was it her fault as she did not think hard enough before signing? Should she have accepted the role of a dish-rag? What she actually did after the real James was revealed was a tragedy as she again did not think it thru. A more logical even if not stronger person would have torn up that worthless contract.
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http://www.popsci.com/science/article/20...
We are on the same page. You may be interested in her perspective on who could be an "objectivist." If my recollection is correct she claimed that we are all students except of course for herself... :)
A is A. Contradictions can not exist!
Thank you!
You make a good point. Rand, herself, studied many philosophies that she never would have claimed to have lived by. The primacy of existence was not her idea, nor were the basic axioms, but they certainly became the foundation of her philosophy.
I hadn't really considered whether I am a student of Objectivism, an Objectivist, or, if possible, both. I'm fairly certain that "omniscience" cannot exist without contradicting Objectivist principles - hope I didn't imply that I thought her to be omniscient.
I do agree with Rand, however, that "a philosophy should be fully integrated from the ground up and free of any contradictions".
Thanks for your comments!
Quite right. That was my understanding of Rand's position. However she was not the only philosopher worth study. She was brilliant but not omniscient. Each of us have our own philosophy, i.e. understanding of the world. I am a student of Objectivism. I am not an Objectivist.
Regards,
O.A.
As far as Dagny's romantic experiences are concerned, I can see her in love with Francisco or Rearden, but Galt is (in my estimate anyway) not even a character. He is much too abstract. Eddie Willers is a more interesting character than John Galt. In fact, he may be the most interesting and intriguing character in the whole story.
There *is* a part in the contract: "for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health", then that part about "...'til death do us part".
I'm glad to know that I can feel free to violate any contract I sign because, in my opinion, the other signer(s) of the contract aren't fulfilling their part of it.
It might be grounds for divorce or annulment. But it's not grounds for arbitrarily violating the contract because his organ gets hard for another woman.
2. She sneered at his work on which she lived.
3. The partnership implied by marriage had barely existed,
take this as grounds for annulment rather than divorce perhaps.
Marriage is a contact, in romantic love, where it is two way, what is offered and exchanged is recognition of values and support for if not active participation in each others chosen life efforts. In this Hank, a straightforward man, made a bad choice, Lilian was simply an exploiter. Old school readers of AS would expect to read how Hank (and Francisco) land on their feet and find women worthy. But AS is the story of the lead woman, not surprisingly.
In AS, compare this with the marriage of Ragnar and (sorry forgot the name). She may not have taken part in or planned the raids or even approve. She would have given support to Ragnar and certainly would not have sneered. Ragnar's values were admired/loved. Lilian only loved Hank's money. There was no marriage. Clearly annulment is applicable.
How anyone can imagine grunting and sweating to get "high" is a celebration of human values escapes me. Don't get me wrong; I appreciate the pleasure of sex as much as the next guy, but I don't confuse it with love or real intimacy.
Dagney's attraction to D'Anconia, Rearden and Galt was a result of her (instinctively, not rationally) finding them increasingly preferable mating prospects. Each one emitted a stronger perception of power, and women are attracted to power (a more powerful male will be able to provide for and protect her and her offspring better).
Rearden's attraction to her was understandable in terms of deprivation; he found a woman who actually *wanted* to screw him. And who made no demands of him, even in that regard.
Galt's attraction to her is simple to explain; pathological. He was a stalker, in today's parlance.
"It is not the ONLY mechanism for genetic change, however. We now know of EPIGENETICS."
Odd, I still have issues with relativity and quantum physics, but for some reason I want to believe in willful evolution... Doesn't bode well for my status as an Objectivist.
Maybe I'm a quack, but while I certainly don't subscribe to creationism or intelligent design, evolution seems to occur too fast to simply be the product of random mutation.
You're right though, in that it has little to do with philosophy. I don't think that makes it nonsense though.
But one example mentioned has always 'stuck' in my memory:
Darwin concluded that there were once sighted fish living in the absolute darkness of cave pools.
Every so often, a fish would be born sightless (a mutation?), and that fish would have his other senses sharpened by comparison. This fish had a better chance of finding food, etc. He would mate, and eventually even more 'blind' fish would be born. Same thing...the 'blind' fish had the greatest chance of survival.
At some point, all you will find are sightless fish living in dark caves.
Survival of the fittest.
Made sense sitting in the classroom.
(Try not to beat me to death with what I just posted, although that could make me the best survivor!)
On that I can agree on...
From what we understand up to now, evolution is purely based on genetics, in other words the best genetic codes get passed on because they provide the give the life-form the best chance at survival. It's often based on reproduction and passing on of traits but can also be by environmental changes, chemicals like teratogens, or radiations that cause pyridine cross-links etc. Adaptations usually fall under things such as epigenetics and chromosomal changes but can also be genetic, depending on the circumstance. I can tell you this, and most don't like it, but there really is no theory of 'evolution' sure their is some context that things change but truly evolve, from simply lifeforms to more complex lifeforms there has been no evidence of from a genetic point of view. For example the Daphnia pulex, or the water flea has the most genes, about 31,000. We humans have only about 23, 000 genes. Does it mean it is a more complex life form or more advanced? Also there is no sound mechanism of adding genetic material to an organism that could actually be used 'constructively' by that organism. There are many, many holes yet to fill in about 'evolution'. I can go on for a long time discussing this as well as 'confirmation bias' in the sciences. But I'll stop for now.
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